An Exercise in Subtly Confrontational Personal Vindication
This soccer book is strangely dull, yet curiously captivating. Its title is confusing. Dear England currently is used by a hit play, an forthcoming television program, and a national address authored by Gareth Southgate in 2021.
This edition of Dear England isn’t officially related to those. It represents an anomaly in the expanding Dear England universe, a volume about guidance: a typically dull elite football manager subject that Southgate follows persistently, relying on the words “leader”, “leading” or “leadership” at least 500 times across its 336-page length.
Questions Raised
“What are leaders? What actions do leaders take? And what do leaders know?” the author questions at the outset, setting out his argument, but declining to address “How are leaders?”, themes probably set aside for a future volume.
Additionally, this publication features a notable absence in the middle. It’s an exercise in subtly confrontational self-justification, in coming close without actually saying the underlying truth, skipping skillfully from lingering grievance to unscabbed wound across a collection of pie charts, management jargon and digressions about historical figures.
Reading Experience
Going through the book is like overhearing your family members having a mannered but deeply felt argument in the adjacent space while you’re trying to concentrate on a professional workshop named “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also impossible to put down, as the author keeps approaching to a topic you truly wish to learn about, before unexpectedly changing tack.
Insights
The book contains inevitably news headlines in works like these, due to the rapt obsession with England managerdom. The most striking instances are: the manager decided he was absolutely going to quit as England manager after supporters threw cups at him at the Euros; he nearly decided to withdrawing from the game at mid-match against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his team were targeted with slurs; he pioneered the idea of specialist dead-ball trainers and the entire league in the English football is now following his lead; he has now abandoned his love for football, a shocking confession thrown away in a single paragraph at the final part.
Leading England through a time of fury, optimism, turmoil and confinement was a brutal ordeal. The wounds are evidently still fresh.
Generic Content
Otherwise, the content is flooded with an robotic linguistic mush of standard leadership chat. Copies of this publication were provided with journalists under non-disclosure agreements before release, presumably out of apprehension someone might leak that “challenging discussions can, by their very essence, be difficult”, that you should always think before you act, that management happens where transformation meets compassion.
Emotional Core
Readers will find however genuine feeling present. Managing England through a time of fury, hope, political ferment and lockdown was a grueling journey. The wounds are obviously still raw, though conveyed in a jargon-laden reimagining of the classic football manager narrative: why I was actually right about each issue all along.
Notable Cases
Even book’s introductory section, Trojan-horsed as exciting memories of the final of Euro 2024, is completely dedicated to how good the manager really was at player changes (the primary Southgate gripe centering on he was not effective at substitutes). Later, he goes into extensive analysis about how he oversaw the Euros final of 2021 flawlessly – particularly the losing tiebreaker – because he complied with a predetermined process, which suggests that bringing on inexperienced squad members in the closing stages to take the crucial kick of their existence was logical and right.
This was validated by a winning shootout against the Swiss team four years later after a game where England spent the entire match looking as if they were striving to wear a pullover the backwards. “The control we exerted in that shootout was absolutely exhilarating,” the author writes, amid equating the performance to US Navy Seals eliminating a notorious figure. Oh Gareth.
Missed Opportunities
On the occasions we do get close to a disclosure, he withdraws from naming names or giving us the substance. We hear there were problematic England squad members who insisted on more attention, maybe because they were spoilt early in their careers. But as you anticipate eagerly, Southgate is quickly veering off into an area called The Culture Code, which claims that instead of a assemblage of characteristics or values, culture is in fact something that is developed by, alas, enough, that’s sufficient.
Notable Sections
Within the better parts are when the author writes about the gradual method of building fortitude in the next generation, or how he sought to describe what it means to be English more clearly and more constructively than any public personality in the spotlight. Best of all, there is a truly absorbing description of that traumatic match in Sofia where England’s black players were targeted with hatred (and afterwards defended vigorously by their leader).
Genuine Ending
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